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Cake day: June 9th, 2023

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  • due to corporate IT policies

    I think that answers your question right there. If you got the device outside of that realm, you’d probably have no issues. Talk to your security and IT people about why that is. There are huge security risks for people being admin over their systems.

    For context, I run my home computer as a non-admin user most of the time, unless I need to make some deep changes, which is not often. Maybe once a month. This saves me from accidentally installing a rootkit or other software. I run my children and wife under the same context so they don’t need to worry either. Yes, it takes me a bit of time to go through and approve some updates, but that’s worth it to not need to worry as much about viruses and keeping data secure.

    The amount of time it takes your IT department to do something is another complaint that should be directed at them. We get those kinds of complaints constantly, but it’s the fact we have everyone asking the same things or completely meaningless ones. You’re in the queue, please give us patience.


  • When getting into a new project or hobby, I tend to go to HF for the tools first. The tools are inexpensive, and I’m probably going to be dropping the hobby or thing soon after my hyperfixation dies off. So, that means I didn’t spend a lot of money on this thing that I’m not going to keep going on. If the tool dies, and I’m still into it, it’s not just hyperfixation and I can get a better tool, but now I understand what I’m looking for. Sometimes, the tool from HF is just fine for the long term, and honestly this happens more than you’d think. I have some drills that aren’t the best, but get things done for near a decade, and some yellow, teal, and reds that have died within 6 months.

    My wife bought me a HF (Port Cable) pancake air compressor for a father’s day. It wasn’t the best, but it was from her and what she could buy without pinging the account in a way that alerted me. It’s just now starting to die off and it’s nearly 12 years old.


  • I was feeling a lot older until I started a mental and physical health routine. Meeting up with other people that were trying their hardest to make this their best life and working on getting my physical health back in line has really changed how I feel.

    Before I was feeling every ache and pain there was to feel. The world was dark and gray and I was just a rat on a wheel doing the same old thing.

    Now, I’m feeling like there is hope. I’m taking more walks out in the nature preserves in our area. My wife has seen the difference in my wellbeing, and how the work has paid off for her as well. My kids are enjoying being out and having their dad back with them emotionally as well.

    If you don’t do it for yourself, find someone that you can do it for. Find a group of like-minded people that aren’t 100% successful, but willing to put their flaws on the table and asking for support. We’re all doing it together, and we’re not the best at it. Keep it up, it’s worth it to finish well.


  • Been a Christian for a long time (1989). I’ve consumed copious amounts of ancient mythology and folklore. People who don’t understand that you can read something that challenges your faith and still follow through with better understanding afterwards is the issue. If you read something and it doesn’t make you think deeper about yourself, faith, world, or whatever what’s the point? Those in the church (Christian or not) that tell you that reading something is a “sin” are probably ones that teeter on the edge of losing their grasp as it is and don’t want you doing the same. Most of them can’t explain why it’s so challenging, they just know it’s there.


  • Resistant does not mean it can’t get moldy. Just less likely if treated well.

    All wooden boards need to be cleaned and well dried before storage to prevent mildew and warping. I wash both sides of my thicker boards even if I just used one so that it doesn’t warp while drying. Also I dry them standing on edge so it dries evenly. Just a longevity thing if you spent good money for a good board. If it’s a $5 board from Walmart, do whatever, just be clean.




  • There is a certain point in a child’s life where they are either going to hear it from you or hear it from a surgeon. My 11 year old had a desire to jump from high places for a time as well. He bruised his heel once and had a hard time walking for a week. Pain is a very good educator. Dissuade them from anything that may end their short life early, but if it’s just going to hurt, let them go. My guidance for kids generally is to be mindful not to tear up the furniture or harm others, but if this hurts after I’ve warned you it’s on you. Here is the first-aid kit. We ultimately got them a trampoline, which was extensively used.





  • Confidence: having faith or belief in oneself and/or abilities

    So, being confident during dating is just knowing you have what it takes to make it. Nothing about that is “bothering people”, at least it shouldn’t. Know what your character and abilities are and do your best with the rest. Dating is about learning what you’re into and what they are into as well. Ask them questions that you’d like them to know about you as well, so you both learn. Date at places that are neutral and there isn’t a ton of pressure. You don’t have to be arrogant or loud, just know your worth and what you’re good at.

    You can do it. It sometimes feels like a lot, but you got this.