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  • At that point just let me ditch the formality and send over the summary in the first place.

    A tangent a little bit but so much this. Why haven’t we normalized using fewer words already?
    Why do we keep writing (some blogs and all of content marketing) whole screens of text to convey just a sentence of real content?
    Why do we keep the useless hello and regards instead of just directly getting to the points already?






  • I don’t know

    Fortunately
    but maybe “yet”…

    I Ducked https://activisthandbook.org/wellbeing/deescalation maybe one of the sources would be helpful?

    EDIT: purely what I (from my chair) think might work: (of course, don’t step outside your own boundaries, safety etc)

    • address the provocateur - to redirect the emotions from the police, so situationally it’s not their place to respond anymore
    • be calm and try to address that this is not the way we want to protest. “I understand that you are angry. I am too. But this is not the way we can change things, violence is not the answer…” - to dissipate the anger put out by the provocateur so it’s not picked up by non-provocateurs
    • probably if those will be organized, they will be moving in packs and pairs, so when you address one guy, another one will try to pick up the anger. That’s why it’s important that many of protesters are aware that provocations might be taking place and be ready to back you up with calming down

    EDIT2:

    • if you are successful they will be trying to trigger you. Be mindful of your tone and body language - your role is not to convince them, but to affect the mood around you. We are social creatures, the point is to not get to the point of a pack of angry wolves
    • remember that they don’t have to be a provocateur, they might be just a protester that is that angry at the situation. Be respectful, don’t get into accusation/blame game
    • remember that provocateurs don’t have to be bald burly men










  • I’m not convinced that the number of questions asked is the correct metric. In the end the point is not to have a constant flow of questions, rather constant flow of answers found.

    There is a point in proficiency in language/library/whatever after which it is faster to find the answer in the code/documentation/test example than to wait until another person on even higher level will come and answer your question.
    Maybe we simply filled out what was needed to be asked in the beginner-bug found-intermediate space and, apart from questions stemming from new versions etc, SO does not need more questions?

    Expectation for everything to constantly grow is unrealistic