If you are in need of some real fresh light, I would recommend to go outside at daytime.

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  • FreshLight@sh.itjust.workstoAsk Lemmy@lemmy.world•Do you have any first date tips and tricks?
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    2 months ago

    This goes for everyone in the dating scene:

    • Make up your mind about what you are looking for in a relationship. You can save a lot of time on both sides.(At least be sure about the basics: relationship / hookup / poly or not)

    • Give everyone a second chance unless they hit absolute no-gos. Everyone can have a bad day and say something they didn’t mean etc.

    • Pick the places where you want to find new people. Is your future date a library person, a skater or something else? (That’s more of a loose suggestion, please disregard if you don’t feel like doing this)

    • Don’t give up! (It might be heartbreaking at times but if you give yourself time to focus on other things in life you might feel refreshed and ready for going back into the dating scene, after a while.)

    • This pains me to write but: Be sure to let people know where you are when going on a date and make it a public place to feel safe. It’s not that much about people actually doing funny things but more about feeling safe so you can focus on the date.

    Please take all of this with a grain of salt. I am just a stranger on the internet, after all.