

Truly insightful. Youre so smart. That being said, please don’t give anyone you love advice.
Truly insightful. Youre so smart. That being said, please don’t give anyone you love advice.
It’s okay. Some people are too dumb and confident to have actual conversations with.
I feel that. I was banking on that feeling as well. I feel the pressure of it but don’t feel the solace I was looking for.
Thanks. It’s like people think I’m asking if I can be a deadbeat or something. I’m 100% on board with giving this kid my best. I just wanted to know if it would ever feel better running myself ragged.
My brain just figured out i can throw on my headphones last night because theyre comminicating no useful information. I’ve been talking her down a lot over the past few days and she had a call with her college friend who’s now a pediatrician which helped her hit a new calmness that I haven’t seen in a while.
Very much holding out for when we’re able to actually connect/communicate and start development in can actually comprehend.
I’ve been smelling it knowing that’s a thing. It does have a distinct smell to it that developed after ~2 weeks but it’s not triggering anything for me. It’s neither good nor bad unless he has shat himself.
Taking notes. Thanks for the help
Lol back under the bridge with ye
Thanks.
Shifting the goal posts banking on this. Every time I said something like “they’re not real people until you can start communicating with them” i caught a bunch of flack. Glad I’m not the only one. People always asked me if I wanted to meet their 8wk old baby and I saw no point to it.
100% will not neglect this kid. I’m just asking if the “natural” motivation will kick in.
She didn’t really know what she was in for. I don’t blame her. We started with 1 and we’re seeing how that goes.
Already tried to make it very clear that I intend to and already am doing everything i can for this kid. I have no intention of being a bad father. It’s just that I’m not feeling the passion everyone told me I would.
Yeah. Definitely trying to quell at least the outward if not inward resentment. I don’t hate the kid, I just have no “natural feelings” from what I’m reading, by 3-6 months when they start to resemble a person, it gets better, so I guess I’ll bank on that for now
Not sure why you had to be so condescending. I’m asking for insight into feelings im not feeling that everyone told me i would have, not for someone to tell me I fucked up. I consulted like 30 people before we made the decision to move ahead with it and not a single person said I shouldn’t go ahead with it. I’m literally doing everything possible aside from feeding him with my man tits from the basic needs to reading and singing to this kid.
Looks like you missed almost all the points i made and it sounds like you need a hug
He WILL make you mad and angry
I signed away my right to shake’em unfortunately. I just channel it all into making 3am digeridoo noises
I find that after waking up from said 20 min nap, it’s good to yell “aaaarrrggggghhhhh fuck meeeeeee” and then move on with the day. Really stretches the lungs out.
Note: When i did it, we used a lot of questions from the Colbert Questionnaire
Its unfortunate because I love drugs